What is a death doula and why do I need one?

A death doula helps the dying fulfill their wishes.

-Patient and family advocate; getting a life altering diagnosis is stressful enough, an advocate is needed in order to ask the questions and take notes so that it can be reprocessed in a warmer environment.

-Vigil planning, funeral wishes, how they want the dying process to go, and many other things. I can help make sure the client has their last wishes fulfilled.

A death doula helps the family in the form of respite care and other services.

-Hospice teams are truly amazing, however, they can’t be there 24/7, this is where I come in. I can help provide respite care for exhausted family members, set up a vigil, and most importantly provide information on how the dying process works and provide advice.

-Current ICU CNA; I will be able to instruct and ensure that family and friends can properly take care of the dying.

-Patient and family advocate, ; the ability to ask the hard questions and guide

What is a grief coach?

A grief coach is someone who helps the grieving navigate through the process and hopefully come to a place of acceptance and learning to healthily live with and along side grief.

-Provide a nonjudgemental presence to help come to a healthy place in grief along side tools and strategies to help grow with grief.




Picture a wave. In the ocean. You can see it, measure it, its height, the way the sunlight refracts when it passes through. And it’s there. And you can see it, you know what it is. It’s a wave.

And then it crashes in the shore and it’s gone. But the water is still there. The wave was just a different way for the water to be, for a little while. You know it’s one conception of death for Buddhists: the wave returns to the ocean, where it came from and where it’s supposed to be.

-The Good Place

Death leaves a heartache no can heal. love leaves sweet memories no one can steal.

-Unknown, Irish cemetetary 1806